HR at Vigilant Security had a very simple test. And she was going to make sure she was always available to serve. DragonCon was better known as NerdiGras. The convention took over most of downtown Atlanta for the better part of two weeks, cramming over a hundred thousand people into half a dozen hotels and ten times as many bars. And where there is fandom, there shall be Cosplayers. She was surprised that she made it to Sunday without a single one of them approaching her.
The religion rather, and more importantly, the church itself is integral to most mormons' identity. The Holy Ghost will testify that it is true. The day could come where she has to decide between her relationship with you and her church. Too often, I think, priesthood holders think that being overly controlling, they are simply wielding their authority in the home. Once she realizes you won't join and she can't get married in the temple, then I suspect everything will be over. Some Mormons believe the Telestial Kingdom will be littered with spouses who refused to get baptized. Because you are a good person, you will recognize the influence of the Holy Ghost and know that the church is true. Initially I thought he would join the church and life would get back on the only track I knew.
I gave her a piece of my mind as my home is much happier and healthy now then when I was married to my x. It's why TBMs are so bugged by people that leave the church. Intimacy is pretty much gone. I made a conscious decision to marry outside the church for my own reasons.